"Family isn't whose blood you carry, it's who you love and loves you back!"

The biggest subject in my life is my family, they are the dearest part of my life. When I was growing up I was popular, at school and everywhere else I would be. It was the way I carried myself that determined to a lot of people who I am, which in many cases things led to a debate.

I had my first daughter when I was in varsity towards the end of my first year. It was challenging at first but then I learnt that it was not about me at all. A year later I had my second daughter, then I had to drop out. I found a job a year after my 2nd daughter. I kept busy since I do not like sitting doing nothing and feeling sorry for myself. I worked at a chocolate company but I did not love what I was doing, it was not challenging at all. I left for an SEO/Web Design job which pushed me to work hard on getting what I had been dreaming of. I did Bsc IT for a reason and today Web Design is my passion! My entire Family encourage me to do what I enjoy all the time.

After all those years, life had somehow managed to hand me with all the challenges possible. I did not give up. It was an adventure that taught me a lot of things about life. I learnt to be as phenomenal as one has to be. Six years later I had my third daughter and I must say what a bliss it is for me to see all of them daily. I share my soul with them, they are still growing but they give me love and hope which I sometimes do not deserve.

My Friends also play a part in my life that help me know myself better. I have very interesting, joyful friends. When things get unseasy they become my pillar of strength to a point where I can just pick myself up and carry on living. I love them to bits and I am greatful for having each one of them in my life.

What I love best about having my family is that they fill my life with joy, love, and hope. Life as a parent is an ever changing landscape, and even now I learn something new about it, and from my family every day. And my kids, having each of them was the best decision I ever made.